Other than the fact that the two of you are certain that you no longer want to remain married to one another, you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse appear to be on the same page with all your child custody plans. Is it even necessary to formally address some of the...
Amicable Divorce
Why it’s worth fighting for a civil divorce
Far too many couples adopt a scorched-earth approach to their divorces. They sling barbs and accusations, abscond with community property and try to pit the children and others against their soon-to-be ex-spouses.This type of strategy is sure to backfire, however....
Can 2 divorced parents ever get along?
In the throes of a hotly contested divorce, you may think that you will never be able to hold a civil conversation again with your ex. However, if you both agree to set aside your differences post-divorce, you may be able to co-parent the kids far more...
Could you adapt to a parenting marriage to stay together?
There are many reasons why marriages fail, but probably the No. 1 reason couples give for staying together long after love has left the building is for the sake of the children. Some parents are sure that having their kids grow up in a house with both their parents...
Tips for an amicable divorce process
People who are considering divorce should take a number of steps to protect themselves, including educating themselves about the divorce process in San Jose. They may also want to consider getting a therapist. This gives the person an outlet to discuss the emotional...
Get the facts before divorcing on paper to benefit financially
Some San Jose couples are working together to decide if strategic divorce is right for them. While the idea of getting divorced in order to save money may seem strange to some, high-earning couples who are concerned about what has been called the "marriage penalty"...
Can mediation help you reach an amicable divorce?
San Jose couples like you who have decided to split up may want to make things as easy as possible by having an uncontested divorce. At the , we will discuss ways to help facilitate this.First of all, mediation can indeed help you reach an...
Am I a good candidate for an uncontested divorce?
Like many other California residents in the same situation, you may be feeling overwhelmed at the thought of your impending divorce. How long will it take? How expensive will my divorce be? What do I stand to lose in our disputes? You may also wonder if there is a...
What are the benefits of cooperating in divorce?
When couples in San Jose both mutually decide to divorce and can agree on the basic terms, an option becomes available to them. You may be able to qualify for an uncontested divorce, which can help you avoid the lengthier parts of litigation.As FindLaw...
What can you do to maintain amicability during your divorce?
Antagonism toward your spouse during a San Jose divorce proceeding is unnecessary and often counterproductive. It can be to everyone's advantage, including your children's, maintain civility between you and your spouse.However, this is not always easy to accomplish....