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3 factors to consider when kids are involved in divorce

As a parent, you never want to see your kid go through something that causes them stress or unhappiness. This is exactly why divorce is often such a daunting prospect. You may know that separation is the best option for you and your spouse, but perhaps the idea of harming your child keeps you from taking the next step. There are a few things to consider when you have kids and are considering divorce.

There are some vital considerations that parents in this situation should think about. Divorce can be a great opportunity for growth and new beginnings—for both you and your child—so rather than focusing on the negatives, focus on the following when you are considering divorce

Potential benefits 

The joke of kids whose parents divorce get two Christmases might be trite, but there are, in fact, several reasons that separation might be beneficial to kids. When parents cannot peacefully stay together, it is often better for them to separate so that kids can enjoy a less contentious living environment. Remember this when you are worrying about the potential damage.

Example you set

You should also consider the example you set for your child before, during and after the divorce. Badmouthing your ex, indulging your anger and failing to negotiate are some of the worst behaviors you can exhibit in front of kids—yet they are some of the most common to emerge in a divorce. Be mindful of the example you set in this time.

Future plans

Lastly, it is important to think about your plans for the future and how they will affect your child. Custody, spousal support and settlements are all vital components of your future plans, and you should consult with a legal representative to explore these issues if you have not already. Having a plan in place can eliminate much uncertainty and anxiety.

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